BEST MATTRESS FAQ
Best Soft Mattress
Who should choose soft, the difference between soft and plush, and how to get cloud-like comfort without sacrificing support.

The best soft mattresses (3-5 on a 10-point firmness scale) provide deep cushioning and pressure relief without excessive sinking. They're ideal for side sleepers under 200 lbs who need their shoulders and hips to sink in for proper alignment. Memory foam and plush hybrid mattresses deliver the best soft feel.
The key is finding "supportive soft" — enough cushion for comfort, enough core support to maintain spinal alignment. Our sleep consultants can help you find the sweet spot.
Who Should Choose a Soft Mattress
- Side sleepers — Soft mattresses allow the shoulder and hip to sink in, preventing pressure points and maintaining spinal alignment. Side sleeper guide →
- Lightweight sleepers (under 150 lbs) — Lighter bodies don't compress mattresses as much. What feels "medium" to a 200-lb person may feel "firm" to a 120-lb person. Soft provides the necessary contouring for lighter frames.
- People with joint pain — Soft mattresses reduce pressure on joints (shoulders, hips, knees). The cushioning distributes weight more gently.
- Those who prefer the "cloud" feel — Some people simply prefer sinking into their mattress rather than sleeping on top of it. That's a valid comfort preference.
Who should avoid soft: Stomach sleepers (hips sink too deep), heavier sleepers over 230 lbs (excessive sinking, premature wear), and back sleepers who need lumbar support. See our firm mattress guide →
Soft vs Plush vs Pillow Top
These terms are often used interchangeably, but they describe different things:
- Soft (3-4 on firmness scale) — The mattress itself is made with low-density, yielding materials. The entire feel is cushioned throughout.
- Plush (4-5) — Slightly firmer than soft. Has a pillowy surface but more supportive core. Most "plush" mattresses from major brands fall here. Shop plush →
- Pillow Top — A construction style where an extra cushion layer is sewn on top of the mattress. The base can be medium or firm with a soft top layer. Can be the best of both worlds — support underneath, softness on top. Shop pillow top →
Our recommendation: Plush or pillow top over truly soft. They provide the cushiony feel most people want while maintaining enough core support to prevent alignment issues.
Best Materials for a Soft Feel
Memory foam — The classic soft-feel material. Slow-sinking, contouring, body-hugging. The softest memory foam mattresses provide an enveloping sensation. Tempur-Pedic LuxeAdapt Soft is the premium option. Shop memory foam →
Plush hybrid — Thick foam comfort layers over pocketed coils. You get the soft surface feel with better airflow and edge support than all-foam. Stearns & Foster Lux Estate Plush is a standout. Shop hybrid →
Latex — Naturally responsive soft feel that bounces back faster than foam. Soft latex doesn't have the "stuck" sensation of soft memory foam. Good for people who want soft but responsive.
When Soft Becomes Too Soft
A mattress is too soft if:
- Your hips sink below your shoulders — This means the spine is curving downward, which causes lower back pain
- You have trouble changing positions — Excessive sinking makes it hard to roll over or get out of bed
- You wake with lower back pain — The mattress isn't providing enough support for your weight
- The mattress sags permanently — Soft materials can develop body impressions faster than firm ones
The fix: If your soft mattress is too soft, a firm mattress topper (1-2") can add support. If it's a new mattress within the 120-night comfort exchange, exchange it for a firmer model. When testing in store, lie on the mattress for 15+ minutes — initial softness can feel great but may become uncomfortable over time.
Frequently Asked Questions
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